Another relationship vent... Typical, huh?
28 days agoSo, I've got this girlfriend, and I love her a lot! But most of the time it doesn't seem like she feels the same. We've been going out for nearly two years and been together through thick and thin, but sometimes, it gets hard! She's a flirty girl, and when I say a flirty girl, I mean she's reallyyy flirty! She'll flirt with other guys right in front of me! All the time! I used to be really sensitive about this (which is not very manly), but after you deal with it for a while, you just kinda grieve it and move on. She's a very beautiful girl, so guys kind of gravitate towards her. I knew I was getting myself into that when we started this relationship. Honestly, I think she loves it. She loves the non-stop attention from guys and when they flirt with her, boy, does she flirt back. I hate it. Can't stand it at all. Even if she did it behind my back I'd be ok, but when I see her do it right in front of me, agh, it hurts. It seems like... She's more interested in these other guys than she is in me! This girl, she comes second to none for me. When I see her, I drop everything just to talk to her, but when I see her, she doesn't even acknowledge me. She's all touchy with the other guys, but when I even just try to hug her or kiss her goodbye, she ends up giving a one-armed "do I have to" kind of thing. I wonder if she still even feels anything towards me anymore. I wonder if she only stays in this relationship for the sake of staying in this relationship, you know what I mean? It's like... She doesn't end it because she knows it will end up sh*%ty. She'd end up getting crap from a bunch of people. And I wouldn't want that too happen either, but I stay because I love her and want to be with her for a very long time. I know if I mention this to her, I'll end up apologizing and being depressed, so I'm reluctant to do so. I may be overreacting, but I just needed to get this out. Thanks for reading guys.